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  • The speaker explains that approaching women should not be difficult, and that men often create a problem out of an opportunity by making it a grand finale.
  • Men need to learn how to read the room by practicing simple awareness, recognizing timing, and paying attention to body language.
  • The speaker notes that women like tension and the unknown, and advises men to look into a woman's eyes without overthinking or overtalking.
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What's going on fellas? So today, today today I'm gonna give you some game. All right, some easy game. Some easy approach game. First thing I want to say before we get into the game, let me give you some more game. Men, it is not hard to approach women. It's not hard. And people have already told you this, but a lot of you guys have making approaching

women some grand finale. And because you made it so serious and so taboo, it's not that hard. But because you made it so weird, you've given up on it because you made a problem out of something easy, right? You created a problem out of an opportunity. That's what you did. All right? Approaching women is an opportunity.

Should not be difficult. All right, fellas. It's about social skills. And before you even get to social skills, because social skills is this. Social skills is usually stuff like body language, right? Your mode of behavior, the [ __ ] you do or the things you can recognize, the stuff you see like eye contact or you having an awareness to recognize eye contact or recognize when a woman likes you. We call this human

interaction. All right, fellas. But pay attention. It is very difficult to understand, recognize and maintain interactions, relationships, and simple experiences with women if you don't understand, recognize, and can't maintain your own emotions. Now, men, remember, this is not an emotional mastery video. I'm just letting you know

a lot of you guys are missing the point. There's a destination you want, said women. But there's a bridge to get there, your internal regulation. And instead of you crossing that bridge, you said, "Uh-uh, [ __ ] that. I'mma act like a bridge ain't even there. And I'm going to give up on the goal and I'm going to go that way. I don't even know what that way is." For a lot of you guys, it's black pill. For a lot of you guys, you still admit that you want women, but you

still complain about them, right? That's a fact to why you're not getting them. So, I'mma relieve you of a few of those excuses. All right, pay attention. Now, first thing with approaching women, men, you have to learn how to read the room. All right? Every time you think about approaching a woman, you're usually in a room. Now, if you're outside at the gas

station or at the park, that's still a room. It's an environment. So, that's what I really want to say. Read the environment. All right. This has a lot to do with your awareness. Simple awareness. All right, man. We ain't focusing on nothing yet. Just simple awareness of what's going on.

This has a lot to do with timing. Knowing when and when not to approach a woman. All right, fellas. That's a preferable and nonprefable time to approach a woman. I'll give you an example. If a woman is standing there and you're attracted to her and she looks over at you and you can see that she likes you, but she's having a full-blown face-toface conversation with somebody and you don't know this woman and you don't know the person she's talking to, obviously that's not the

time to approach. That would be you displaying social awareness by not approaching that woman at that time. But if she is standing there by herself and you guys are making full-blown eye contact and it is obvious that you like her, but you don't know if she likes you yet. That's the whole point, the mystery. But you can tell it's good timing. Right now, when you approach her and she gives you this nonchalant

attitude and she is giving you no signs, it's not that she don't like you. She was looking at you, but she's giving you no signs that she's interested in engaging in dialogue with your ass. Part of you reading the rumors, understanding, recognizing that she don't want to talk and you maintaining your ability to shut the hell up and not make yourself look dumb and I get rejected for no goddamn reason. Part of the reason why a lot of you guys get rejected is because you

don't know how to read the room. You don't know when a woman is available or not available to speak to you. And let me give you a caveat. Just because a woman is wearing headphones at the gym, that does not disqualify her from you approaching her. That's actually the best time because what it shows is that you don't care about imaginary boundaries or barriers because that's what headphones are. A lot of you guys cope and you make up this dumbass reason as to why you can't approach women in

the gym because she wearing headphones. Gee, everybody in the gym got headphones. The best thing you can do as a masculine man is walk right up to her as soon as you feel in your body that you want her. And I make up no dumbass excuse that it's dangerous to approach women in 2026. It is dangerous. If you don't know what the hell you doing, it's d g is g that bridge. Gee, if you don't know how to cross that bridge, it's dangerous. If you don't know how to ride a bike, it's dangerous. Gee, I just

started skateboarding. And I don't know how to skateboard. And I went freestyling in my neighborhood. And I almost got hit by a car. Why? Cuz I don't know what I'm doing. But guess what I didn't do? And like what most of you dudes do, every time you don't know what you're doing and you try and you fail, I did not give up.

Right? That's why I'm entering the 2030X games. All right, fellas. Pay attention. Learn how to read the room. That's my point. All right. Now, next thing, and I'm going be very specific about this one because this is a big problem for a lot of you men. It's not that you're not social, right? Go back to my first point. It's just that you don't you lack social awareness. All right, pay attention. Body language. All right, I

was at the gym and I watched a dude walk up to a chick. Did I spell language right? I have a problem with spelling this word. I watched a dude walk up to a woman from a backwards angle. I don't even know if that makes sense, but he walked up to her from behind her and then tapped on her shoulder to approach her.

I'm like, gee, scared the [ __ ] out of her, by the way. And mind you, look, look, I'mma be honest. All right, certain dudes can do what the hell they want. All right. Just like in the jungle, certain animals can come out at certain times of the day. Certain animals can't, right? Like possums.

Possums can't come out in the daytime, right? First of all, they nocturnal. And second of all, they they can't defend themselves against faster, more agile animals, right? Like cats. Cats will [ __ ] them up in the daytime. But pay attention. Lions can walk around whenever the [ __ ] they want to, right?

They can just roam the jungle whenever the [ __ ] they want to. They ain't got to ask permission for note. Matter of fact, everybody get the [ __ ] out the way, right? Everybody knows when the line coming. They can smell them. Just like highly attractive men and highly attractive man can walk up to a woman behind her, grab her by the back of her neck and turn her around and say, "I like you." And she might like it. For all you guys, if you think you're highly attractive, I do not recommend you proceeding on displaying this technique

on any woman you meet. All right? It don't make sense. It just don't make sense. And that was actually hypothetical in an extreme case. What I'm saying is just like highly attractive women, right? There's certain things highly attractive people can't do. Like I know some highly attractive women, they get frustrated at certain jobs that because they can't wear certain outfits because it's too revealing. But if a normal girl wear it, it wouldn't be a thing, right? Nobody would bat knead. What I'm saying is

certain things you can and cannot do. And you understand this when you get some social awareness and learn how to read the room. All right? read the goddamn room. Body language. Sometimes women show you guys that they like you simply by facing towards you and opening their body up. And somebody told you because she don't actively smile at you and do this to you, you think she don't like you or you think you shouldn't approach.

God, you know what I'm sick of? You guys talking about it's not safe to approach women. It's not safe for you. That's your reality. All right. Stop poisoning the goddamn community with your [ __ ] That's not true. It might be true for you and a contingent amount of men. All right? But that shouldn't even be your thought process. Why is that the belief that you succumb to? You got so many other beliefs, [ __ ] Now, this thing about body

language. Body language. Pay attention to this word language. What do you do with language? You communicate. Usually, a woman's body would tell you how to approach her.

Some women are nervous, right? So, they do subtle [ __ ] to show you that, hey, I'm nervous and I don't know if I like you yet because you you look very intimidating. So, what's going on in her head? She's not worried about your edge up or how tall you are. She already liked you. She trying to figure out if you like her half the time. And some of you guys are worried about if she liked you so much, you should be worried about if you like her cuz that's on her mind

half the time. Jesus Christ. These women are not aliens. You know how I can prove this? They got bodies just like you. Same body you got, minus a few organs. And All right, but pay attention. It's not hard, G. All right, I'm trying to help you understand this. If you are emotionally triggered by this, it's because you need to join my university and fix your goddamn emotions, and you gonna understand how easy it is to

approach women. All right, let me get more specific. Eye contact. Gee, you got to understand this. All right, listen to me. Tension.

All right. One of the main attraction triggers for women, tension. Maybe not for you. Two reasons. Why? Because you're a man and you thinking straight lines, right? And maybe because you too emotional, but tension. Women like tension, right?

Women like the unknown. They like the void, right? Men, we don't like the void. We like to figure [ __ ] out. We need the details. Women don't need details. That's why you shouldn't overemphasize and focus on details. Be aware of details.

Be aware of the fact that y'all gazing in each other's eyes, but don't focus on it. You know what you should focus on? Nothing. All right? Focus on how beautiful that woman is. That's what you should do. All right? And just just lose yourself in a woman's eyes so you can stop thinking about what the hell you gonna say. God, you ever looked into some of you guys never really looked into a woman's eyes because as soon as y'all make eye contact, you start glitching and you start formally start thinking about what the last thing you

done read is some dumbass dating ebook trying to figure out what the hell to say. Do you know what you could say? Oh my gosh, you're the most beautiful woman I've ever met in my life. And you know what? That might hit for most women if you say with conviction. Not even with conviction, just with your chest and in the moment. And most women would love that [ __ ] because you know why? Most women don't even get approached. If you don't believe me, ask my university members. Cuz everybody in there

approaching women every goddamn day. Most women don't even get approached at all. They're dying for men to approach them. Not dorks. Pay attention. They don't want a [ __ ] geek to approach them. And that's why a lot of you guys are upset and you saying it's not safe cuz you're not safe. You look like a walking hazard.

Frequently asked questions

The speaker states that men make approaching women a grand finale, treating it as a serious and taboo problem rather than an opportunity.

Just because a woman is wearing headphones at the gym does not disqualify her from being approached. In fact, it can be the best time because it shows you do not care about imaginary boundaries.

One of the main attraction triggers for women is tension and the unknown.