What ACTUALLY Turns WOMEN On – Transcript

00:00What's going on, fellas? So, today I'm gonna show you how to attract women in today's dating marketplace. Now, I'm not just talking about specifically today's dating marketplace. I'm talking about in general, okay? A lot of men, man, dude, you guys have given up on dating. You giving up on women. And I understand.

00:22But if you are giving up on women because you're not getting good results with women or you're seeing that most men are not getting good results with women, that's basically you reacting. All right? And there's a difference between reacting and responding. If you call yourself a masculine man, instead of reacting to the fact that most women aren't taking men seriously and most women aren't committing and most women aren't submitting, instead of reacting to that and opting out the game, you can

00:48respond and adapt because that's what masculinity is about. Adaptability. You understanding that even if the terrain changes, your internal state doesn't get determined by what's going on on the outside world. And it definitely definitely doesn't get determined by the experiences that other men are having or what you seeing on social media. All right. Now, pay attention. It's obvious.

01:13All right. Pay attention. It's obvious that women are attracted to looks, money, status, and obviously if you have the ability to communicate, which we call gain, right? But that's just the destination. Meaning that's the goal.

01:28meaning that's just the external what you present to the woman. There's a bridge that you have to cross to get to that. All right? And that's your masculine self-development. That's the [ __ ] that you should have been working on before the dating game even changed.

01:44All right? Now, I ain't going to lie, dating used to be easy. It used to be easy. But all that really meant was men didn't have to be the best versions of themselves. And I'm not saying you should have to be the best version of yourself to get a woman. What I'm saying is you should be the best version of yourself or that should that should at least be the goal anyway. All right.

02:04Now, I'mma give you like nine or 10 things today that you should be working on. That's not that you should be working on, but just that if you just make a decision to start applying these things to your life, these traits or these habits, women are easy, bro. Women are just a natural result of a complete man. All right. Now, first thing, G.

02:26First thing, I can categorize this as your physique or your body or your fitness or your health, but pay attention. When you're in a relationship with a woman or you're dealing with a woman or you just approach a woman, you have to understand that sex, sexual competence is important. This is something that's not talked about enough. All right? When guys come to me with relationship issues

02:51or dating problems, one thing that's rarely mentioned or rarely brought up is the question, and you never ask yourself this question, am I sexually attractive to this woman? I'm not saying, do I just look good? Am I sexually attractive to this woman? And also, do I have the ability and capability to sexually perform when needed? And can I satisfy this woman? If this question ain't going

03:20through your head, you missing a big part of dating. All right, you got to understand this. Now, how does this relate to your body? You have to you have to have the type of body that a woman wants to sleep in the bed with, G.

03:33Okay? You know, bro, some women just want to bring you to the gym and show you off and flex you in front of the other girls. But if you if you look like [ __ ] she ain't going she don't have a real motivation to be with you and be around you. It's not just about showing you off cuz that's ego. I'm just saying in the bed, bro. Your sexual performance, your libido, your health, your all gee, pay attent.

03:58Your testosterone. This is important. All right. It's a reason why a lot of you guys lose your chick because it's not that you don't look good, but your sexual performance is trash. And you never consider that when she leave you or when she go you when she walk away.

04:13You blame it on external stuff like maybe you don't look good enough or communication issues or just some other stuff that's easy that's easy for you to pinpoint that it wouldn't affect your ego cuz you can blame the other side on her. But sometimes you just not good in the bedroom. Now this may have triggered some of you guys, but if the shoe fits, go train. Why is training and you hitting the gym so important and you eating healthy and you not putting dumb

04:39[ __ ] in your body and you paying attention to the amount of uh sugar and all this dumb [ __ ] you putting in your system because this affects your whole physiology. All right, pay attention your body. If you don't think this is important, if you don't think this is a reason why your girl may be looking in other directions or why you can't attract the women that you want, pay attention. All right? Y'all always

05:04talking about guys who get women for certain reasons. It's not always about money. Sometimes it is. And that's the next thing I want to talk about. What it is is competence. All right? You being able to perform in the bedroom, that shows competence. That shows experience.

05:19That shows you've done it before. And that's what women want. You don't want a woman who's fully competent in the bedroom, right? Like the next thing, money. All right. Your financial literacy, your financial discipline, your financial awareness. This is another reason why a lot of guys are not having success with women. And if you get your money right, gee, I know I mentioned that money is not uh the end all be all of everything, but it's really not about the amount of

05:47money you have. Because when men say you should have money to get women, they real vague about it, right? How much money? It really depends on where you live, the type of women you deal with, the dynamic in which you planning on having with these women. That's going to all depend on how much money you need.

06:04But your financial your awareness of finances, your simple basic understanding of your finances is important. All right. This relates to competence. you have incompetence. Women are not I'm not going to say women are not competent financially, but most women once they get with a man and they lock in to a certain degree, they want to kind of turn their brain off when it comes to finances. But if you don't give

06:31a woman some type of hope or dream that one day she'll be able to turn her brain off when it come to finances or just the fact that you a competent individual when y'all go out you can pay for the date. You can't you can't g if you live with your parents. All right? I'm not saying you shouldn't be dating, but don't trip as to why you're having certain type of frictions in your relationship. You don't have autonomy.

06:55All right? That's what money gives you. It gives you autonomy. It gives you the ability to be able to navigate this world in a way that most men can't today as to why they're not getting the results that they want. All right? There's nothing really wrong with the dating marketplace. The dating marketplace is just a reflection of what's going on with man and woman. the men and the women in society. It's just a result. Now, it may not be beneficial

07:21for you or for some people, but hey, you got the short end of the stick because there's some things you're not understanding. All right? This [ __ ] is real simple when you focus on yourself and you focus on your money instead of trying to get a woman before you get the money. Now, in order for you to address these things, the fact that your sexual performance may not be good enough, the fact that your body may not be good enough, the fact that you may not have enough money or you don't have enough

07:48discipline with your money, this is going to take emotional awareness and emotional intelligence. All right, G. You have to be able to sit down, be aware as to why you're not getting the results that you want. Understand this [ __ ] recognize it, and manage your emotions without letting your ego get in the way and creating false narratives as to why you're not getting the results that you want. One of the biggest reasons why most men cannot get women,

08:14pay attention, G, is because you lack social skills. Okay? You do. You have the inability to communicate with people. All right, G. Because you base everything off the external. Looks, money, game, status. Now, watch this.

08:32Game is internal. That's what you guys don't understand. You skip over that and you just done narrowed it down and said, "Well, women just want men with money and status and they just want to use men and they're not interested in relationships." All of that is true in some cases, but that has nothing to do with your personal experience. If you had enough money, all right, enough

08:58charisma, sexual charisma, and enough social skills, you would have enough adaptability to position yourself in places, in environments, and in ecosystems where you can find the women or they find you, however you want to flip it, that you can get in proximity with the women that you want. and that naturally want you. Okay, you have to understand this and I'm telling you this from self-experience. I'm not speak I look I'm telling you this because I

09:25literally have the ability to position myself to get around women that like me my type basically. So I don't have to complain about the data mark. I can be aware of it but I don't have to focus on the problems. Why? Because I can focus within and understand that everything that I see is based on what's going on in my mind. You need emotional intelligence to figure this out. All right. I have a full nervous system and emotional regulation course inside of my academy that teaches you how to

09:52understand, recognize, and manage your own emotions so you can stop being impulsive like most men and making decisions from confusion and chaos. And you can start making decisions from clarity and start taking back control of your life. All right. Now, I want to switch topics real quick for the guys who actually dating or dealing with women. You're actually in some type of dynamic, marriage, whatever it is, man.

10:15And it could be the beginning stages or anything. All right. Now, we all know as men like women are emotional, right? We say men are logical, women are emotional. That's that's half true. That's mostly true, partly true. But check this out. You got to understand this. When women are emotional, if first of all, if you understand that women are naturally emotional, right? They're emotional creatures.

10:37These emotional creatures. Understand it then. So when she get emotional, it's two things you shouldn't be doing. That's three things you shouldn't be doing. Remember I said women mirror what? Your energy. Does this mean she's going to necessarily do everything you do? No, G. No. What this means is if a woman is being chaotic or not listening to you or being

11:02indifferent or playing hide and cold. Oh, your job is not to react. I said that earlier. There's a difference between reacting and responding. If your whole center is attached to this woman's emotions, you gonna do a few things. One, you're going to avoid it, right? What you don't understand. Remember I said emotional intelligence. When you don't understand something, you avoid it. Why do you