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Why WOMEN LOVE Men With SOCIAL SKILLS – Transcript
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- The speaker explains that women love tension and friction in conversations, which men often run from due to thinking in straight lines.
- The speaker highlights that competence, demonstrated through articulation and storytelling based on real life experiences, is attractive.
- The speaker notes that timing, which involves reading the room, moods, and the state of the environment, helps men succeed.
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What's going on fellas? So, today >> [sighs] >> we are going to talk about why having social skills is highly attractive to women.
All right? Now, you already know this but I'm going to give you the why. There's nothing wrong with wanting to know why anything is attractive to women. All right? As a man, that's almost weird to not be trying to discover how to be more attractive to women. I'm going to be honest. So, you shouldn't shame yourself for it. But let me tell you the flaw.
Most men only focus on how to get a woman, right? Cuz you're thinking in a straight line. I'm going to talk about how most men think in a straight line later on in the video. Welcome. But also, I'm going to show you a few reasons and also I'm going to give you a few techniques on how to actually attract women with social skills cuz sometimes it's not about your looks that get you in the door. Sometimes it's not about your money.
That comes later on cuz you shouldn't be simping. All right? But here's my thing fellas. Most men only focus on how to get women. So, they do dumb [ __ ] like prioritize all their time on looks maxing and [ __ ] like that. All right?
Now, when you spend all this time focusing on a woman, right? When all your vision, this is you over here, right? When all your vision is on a woman you end up getting rejected all the time, all right? So, you always end up coming back to watching another video >> >> and needing another tactic on how to get a woman to take you back, all right? But let me show you what's easier.
All right? We're going to remove all this friction between you and this critter, all right? We're going to make it easy for you to get her. And if you just understand how to talk to women, all right, fellas? I know many men who don't have body game.
I'm not saying it's okay, cuz dad bods are not cool. I know many men who don't have money. And I'm not saying that's okay, cuz being broke ain't cool, either. But what I'm saying is if you understand how to speak, and not only how to speak, cuz when I say how to speak, you automatically assume I mean articulation, meaning what to actually say, meaning vocabulary. That's not what I'm talking about.
Most of social skills, all right? This ain't even no skill, really. It's social awareness. Most of social awareness is usually your energy and your state and your nervous system. Now, I ain't going to get that deep, cuz we going to keep it on social skills today.
All right? I got a whole nervous system course for that inside of my academy. But this is what we're going to talk about, all right? Attracting more women. A lot of you guys have given up on dating. That's just because you mad and you salty and you bitter. Just get over it.
All right, G? Women ain't going nowhere. God is not about Whatever you believe in is not about to create any type of species that's going to replace women. All right? The chicks over in Thailand, they still women.
>> >> They all critters, all right? Pay attention. Now, first thing, first reason why you need social skills and why it's going to make you highly attractive to women is because women love tension.
All right, fellas? What is tension? Tension is friction. It's what a lot of men run from. You run from tension. You run from friction. And the reason why is because men, I'm going to give you an example, but men men think in straight lines. All right?
Men think, I like chick, approach chick, get chick. It's a straight line, right? You like chick, somewhere in the middle you approach a chick, and then you get the girl, right?
Don't work like that. This how women think. And the reason why you need to understand to a degree how women think is because she is 50% of you getting the [ __ ] Pay attention. Now, women don't think from point A to point B. Women think from point A to sometimes there is no goddamn point.
All right, fellas, it's like sex. >> >> You understand? Pay attention. Sometimes women do this, all right, fellas? In process. Sometimes a woman will reject you just to cause tension, just to see if you going to flinch at the rejection.
Some of you listen. Before you jump to oh well, I ain't about to get rejected and keep talking to her, G, don't you know if you had enough social range, what I'm going to teach you about later, if you had enough social range, you'll understand that sometimes a no ain't a no?
Uh, but the G, but you you have got so many no's that no [ __ ] up your nervous system. And once you hear no, you bolt and you run. No, you got to learn how to play. This is play. Now, it's okay in process in life and money and business, when you working, when you trying to solve a problem, this from point A to point B is necessary. You going like this, straight target is necessary. But with women, you
got to dance. All right? Let's dance. Let's dance. Did that went over your head? Uh, well, I got a lot of master classes Saturday, all right? But listen to me.
Pay attention. Women like tension, all right? There's many different ways I can explain tension. All right, but this video ain't really long enough for all that. The video going to end up being an hour if I explain all the different many ways women like tension. Now, why is this important?
How does this relate to social skills? You always rushing to speak. All right. There's going to be gaps and pauses. In those gaps and pauses in dialogue and conversation, as what we talking about, all right, let's keep the main thing the main thing. In gaps and pauses in conversations, that's tension, that's friction. What's happening in those gaps and pauses?
All right, you right here. You see the woman, you like the woman. This is the future, all right? When she says yes, but there is this long gap and pause when you walk up to her and y'all speak and y'all engage and there's this gap and silence where she looks at you and she smiles and you sitting there and you smiling back looking all dorky and you don't know what to say. You know what the best thing to do in those situations? Have some damn social
skills. You might not need to say [ __ ] Right, she might ramble and give you all the clues that you need to find out that she a critter or find out that she actually like you or find out that she just shy or find out she a weirdo just like you. All right, fellas, so many things you can find out when you let the tension breathe. All right, women will fill in those gaps most of the time if you let the tension breathe. All right,
it's like money, right? It's like money. People don't know how to handle money. Why? Cuz they ain't used to it, right? So, every time there's an exchange, they glitch, right? That that middle part between them seeing what they want and paying for what they want. They know what they want, but and they can just naturally just get a person money, but they glitching and start thinking about all the [ __ ] that they forgot to pay for and all that stuff. You see what it's the same thing, right? If you ain't get that, that went over your head, man,
something wrong with you. All right? Now, pay attention. Next thing that women like, all right, fellas? Now, is it all about what women like? I mean, only if you want to get a woman. >> >> If you don't want a woman, you shouldn't care. There's so many guys talking about, "Man, I don't care about what women like." That's probably cuz you ain't got none. And if you That's fine if you ain't got none if you have no desire to get one, but don't complain and ruin the party for everybody else.
Right? Don't be a party pooper. Okay? So, competence. Women Every humans like competence. [ __ ] I hate incompetent women. Right? Women who don't know how to say thank you to the server and [ __ ] right?
That's That's incompetent. So, competence. Women like competence. I'm going to give you an example of competence, all right? As far as social skills. I told you I was going to talk about this.
Your ability to articulate yourself, all right? And another thing I'm add to competence, and that's your ability to tell stories, all right? Now, articulation and also telling stories and also competence is going to have a lot to do I'm going to help you solve this problem.
Experience. Many people ask me, "KD, why are you so articulate?" Because I have experience. Not just experience with women, but I have experience in sales, I have experience in business, I have experience in networking, I have experience with women, I have experience with building relationships and friendships and all that [ __ ] Over time, social skills are no longer something that you try to attain. It's something that comes natural from you
what? Experiencing life. And that's something that a lot of you guys don't do. You don't experience life. You can't learn social skills through chat GPT. You got to go outside. Chat GPT, you know the beautiful thing about AI is it never had a real experience at being a human.
So, it can't really articulate to you what it means to be a human. It can tell you stories, but not real stories. It can't really give you the depth of the stories. All right? When you can sit there and talk to a woman about the [ __ ] that you done did and the [ __ ] that you done been through and how you [clears throat] made it through this and how you [ __ ] up on this and how you overcame this.